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Giving a blowjob is an art that many attempt, most adore, and few ever truly perfect. But that’s okay! Because even an imperfect blowjob is, like, mind-blowingly good. There’s no need to worry about being perfect as long as you and your partner are having a good time. If you want to up your head game, you’re in the right place.
Start Slow and Build Up
Good things come to those who wait, as the old saying goes. Rather than coming in hot and giving it all you have at the very beginning, try starting off slow. Tease your lover’s penis with your hands and fingertips, kiss their thighs, blow a soft breath against their penis without ever actually touching it with your lips and tongue. Tell them how excited you are to taste them, and how much doing this for them turns you on. You’ll have them shaking at the knees and begging for more before you’ve even really begun.
Wetter is Better
Using lube while giving a blowjob might sound a little counterintuitive. But using a flavored lube can be a total game changer. It’ll make your lover taste even more delicious and can increase saliva production, which will make you more enthusiastic. Another great tip is to use Flintt Mints if you struggle with dry mouth! Flintt mints are breath mints that alleviate dry mouth by making your mouth water and sparkle! They’re also plant-based, vegan, sugar-free, and non-GMO.
Let Your Lips Work Magic
Now you can really get things going. Kiss along the shaft of their penis. You can switch from soft, closed-mouth kisses all the way up to hot, wet, open-mouthed ones and everything in between. Pay extra attention to the tip of their penis, since it has so many incredibly sensitive nerve endings.
Get Your Tongue in On It
Your tongue is a big asset when it comes to giving a killer blowjob. You can lick up and down the shaft and around the tip of the penis. When you take your lover’s penis into your mouth, you can try moving your tongue against the bottom of their shaft and tracing the veins there. Your lips and tongue and hands can all work together to create some amazing sensations for your lover.
Try Moaning
If you moan while their penis is in your mouth, incredible things can happen to them. The vibration of your moan will rumble against their sensitive nerve endings, giving them a jolt of intense pleasure. Plus, it lets them know you’re having a good time and you’re turned on for them, which always feels great for the receiver.
Get Deep
Deep throating can be a little intimidating, especially for those of us who have a strong gag reflex, and that’s where deep throat sprays come into play! These sprays numb the back of your throat, keeping your gag reflex from activating. Pro-tip: match the flavor of your lube and your numbing spray or use two complimentary flavors to make a unique, delicious treat for yourself.
Don’t Forget the Balls
Your lover’s penis isn’t the only thing that deserves love! Their balls are just as important. You can stroke them with your hands or lick and kiss them or even suck them into your mouth and give them some extra-special attention. They’re super sensitive as well, so if you leave them out, you’ll miss out on providing amazing sensations. If you really want to turn up the heat, you can use a palm stroker. They’ve got unique textures and different vibration functions so you can drive your lover wild with your mouth and hands all at once.
A Little Rimming Goes a Long Way
If you and your lover are both interested and comfortable, you could try stimulating their anus while you go down on them. The rim of the anus is another erogenous zone that’s packed with nerve endings. You can rub it with your fingertips while you use your mouth on their penis. Bonus points if you use a bit of lube to help them relax and feel even better.