An Intro to Queer-Centric Sex Toys and What Makes Them Unique

Happy Pride Month!

We believe pleasure is for every body, identity, and relationship. However, when browsing a sex toy shop (whether online or in-person), you might have noticed that many products still feel very…one-size-fits-hetero. 

That’s where queer-centric sex toys come into play. And no, these aren’t just standard products now available in rainbow color. These are queer-designed toys intentionally crafted to work with a wider range of bodies, gender expressions, and types of play. 

TL;DR

• Queer-centric toys are built around anatomy-agnotistic design, no assumed roles, and adjustable use for all bodies and identities.
• Gender X offers inclusive options like the Anybody’s plug (comfortable for any anatomy), the Body Kisses Suction (works on multiple sensitive areas), and the Strapless Strap-On (no harness required, great for queer couples).
• The We-Vibe Chorus is an adjustable, app-controlled couples vibrator that works for two people with vulvas, a partner with a penis, or solo play.
• Like a good bundle? The Starship Pride Kit includes a non-realistic dildo, a sex game, playful penis-shaped candy, and a Sliquid Sparkle lube.
• Gender-inclusive toys often work better for everyone, regardless of identity or relationship structure. 

What Does “Queer-Centric” Mean in Toy Design?

A toy doesn’t become queer-centric just because it’s rainbow or sold during pride month. True LGBTQ+ pleasure tools are built around three core ideas:

1. Anatomy-agnostic design. The toy works whether you have a penis, vulva, neo-vagina, bottom growth, or anything in-between.
2. No assumed roles. The toy doesn’t imply there must be a “giver” and “receiver” based on gender.
3. Adjustable, not prescriptive. The toy offers flexibility in how it’s worn, held, or used.

Product Spotlight: Gender-Inclusive Sex Toys

It might feel overwhelming trying to decide which toy you want to buy. There are tons of options available and not all of them may specify if they’re LGBTQ+ inclusive. That’s why we’ve put together some of our favorite gender-inclusive sex toys. 

Gender X: Designed for All Bodies

The Gender X line is a fantastic example of gender-inclusive sex toys in action. These products move beyond the binary. 

1. Anybody’s Plug 

This isn’t an ordinary butt plug. This plug offers a wider, flatter base and a shape that’s comfortable regardless of anatomy. The name says it all: anybody can enjoy it. It’s made from body-safe silicone and doesn’t rely on gendered packaging or instructions. 

2. Body Kisses Suction Toy

Suction toys are often marketed only to people with clitorises. But Body Kisses uses a broad, soft mouth that can work on nipples, glans, labia, t-dicks, or other sensitive areas. It’s powerful, quiet, and doesn’t assume what body parts you have. 

3. Strapless Strap-On

“Strapless strap-on” sounds like a contradiction, but here’s how it works: one end is inserted by the wearer (anyone can use it, thanks to a bulb that works with pelvic muscles), while the other end provides stimulation for a partner. No harnesses required. This design is a game-changer for queer couples who want intimacy without straps or gender roles. 

We-Vibe Chorus 

The We-Vibe Chorus is technically a “couples vibrator,” but don’t assume that means one penis and one vagina. It’s a C-shaped toy that hugs the clitoris and G-spot area while leaving the vagina open for penetration. Because it’s adjustable, flexible, and app-controlled (great for long distance play), it works beautifully for:

• Two people with vulvas (sharing the toy)
• A partner with a penis who wants to add clitoral stimulation during intimacy
• Solo play that doesn’t feel one-dimensional

The revolutionary squeeze remote lets you change intensity by squeezing. No fumbling for buttons or settings mid-moment. 

Starship Pride Kit

If you’re looking for some fun ideas or inspiration, we’ve created just the thing for you. Our Starship Pride Kit is a thoughtfully designed kit complete with games, a toy, and a bottle of lube. The full kit includes:

• Avant Pride P1 Freedom Dildo: a dildo from a brand known for colorful, body-safe, non-realistic designs. No testicles, no skin tones, just fun.
• Sex Game: prompts to explore together without awkward “who does what” scripts.
• All Dicks Penis Candy: a playful, edible nod to anatomy in a gender-affirming way.
• Sliquid Naturals Sparkle Pride Lube: water-based, glycerin-free, and sparkly! Sliquid is a queer-favorite brand because they avoid irritants and market to all bodies. 

Why Queer-Designed Toys Work Better for Everyone

Here’s a secret: queer-designed toys often solve problems cisgender, heterosexual couples didn’t even know they had. 

Adjustable curves (like on the We-Vibe Chorus) mean less guessing about anatomy and comfort. 
Anatomy-neutral toys (like the Anybody’s Plug) mean you can buy one product that will be compatible with you and whoever your partner is. 
Non-realistic designs (like the Strapless Strap-on) mean you focus on sensation and the moment, not a forced visual script.

Whether you’re non-binary, a gay or lesbian couple, a straight couple with mobility issues, or a solo player who hates pink, floral, gender specific packaging, gender-inclusive sex toys just work better.

Happy Pride Month!

At Starship, we don’t just slap a rainbow on a box and call it a day. We stock brands like Gender X and We-Vibe because we believe inclusive design is simply better design. 

However you identify, whoever you’re with (or even if you’re flying solo), your pleasure matters. If you’re curious to see what queer-centric play looks like for you, check out our For All category to see all of your possibilities.