Pleasure at Every Age

Have you ever heard of perimenopause? It means “around menopause” and it indicates a gradual decrease in ovary function. Some vulva owners will start to experience symptoms as young as 35. Some of the symptoms include hot flashes, vaginal dryness, decreased libido, mood swings, and sleep issues. All of these might make you feel like your sex life is over and that’s just not the case! There’s tons of tips, tricks, and toys that can help you through this time. 

Lube for Those Over 40

As you get older and start to experience the symptoms of perimenopause, menopause, and beyond, you might need some help getting or staying wet. Wicked Sensual Care’s timeless® lube is specifically designed to help people with vulvas through this stage of life. It offers four different types of lube for any situation you find yourself in. Simply® timeless™ Aqua is a water-based lube that’s perfect for general use and toys. Simply timeless™ Aqua Jelly is a thicker water-based formula for additional comfort. Simply® timeless™ Silicone is a long-lasting, silicone-based lubricant that helps you stay wetter longer. Simply® timeless™ Hybrid is a blend of water-based and silicone lube providing ultimate versatility. Timeless lubes are made with all-natural ingredients that won’t disrupt your vagina’s pH levels. The timeless line was created to address the issue of vaginal dryness, making sure you enjoy a comfortable, pleasurable experience. 

Valentine’s Gifts 

Valentine’s Day is the perfect day to gift pleasure. After all, what better way is there to say “I lust you?” When you’re searching for toys for someone with a vulva over 40, a few things you want to look for are ease of use, lightweight, and powerful. We’ve picked a few to get you started! 

Vibrator with Clitoral Stimulation

Why get a basic vibrator when you can have three toys in one? Starship’s Pandoras G-Motion Rabbit Wand is the total package when it comes to rabbit vibrators! The rabbit ears are equipped with seven intense functions. The shaft has a 3-speed rollerball that glides back and forth mimicking the motion of a fingertip rubbing right against your G-spot. Then you can flip it around and ride the wand's seven pulse-pounding vibration functions. Independent controls let you use all three motors in bunny, shaft, and wand solo or simultaneously for shared pleasure.

(P.S. If you want this one, grab it while supplies last! It’s discontinued and 30% off, so it’s your last chance.)

All Love for the Clit

The Womanizer Liberty 2 is an air clit stimulator. It’s a discreet yet powerful toy made complete with a traveling case so you can take her anywhere you go. The intensity levels are perfectly balanced and offer the right setting for your every mood. The Liberty 2 gives gentle air vibrations that suck and massage together at the same time to provide an unprecedented orgasmic feeling.

Strengthen Your Pelvic Floor

Starship’s Libra Kegel Trio is great to help you strengthen your pelvic floor. And a stronger pelvic floor means more sexual pleasure! Just five minutes a day with your Kegel balls is enough to see results. This set includes three different weighted Kegel balls, starter, intermediate, and advanced. Also, they’re equipped with an easy-retrieval cord so that you won’t struggle to remove them after use. To do Kegel exercises with or without Kegel balls, first start with an empty bladder and sit or lie down comfortably. Next, flex your pelvic muscles and hold for 3-5 seconds. Relax for 3-5 seconds. Then repeat approximately 10 times. 

Clean Up After Yourself!

Now you can’t go without an amazing toy cleaner. Swiss Navy’s Foam Toy Cleaner is one of our favorites. The foaming pump is easy to use and it’s the perfect size to keep in your toy box. It’s important for you and your toy’s health to wash your toys before and after use!