What are Transgender Sex Toys? A Guide to Gender-Affirming Pleasure

Sexual exploration is deeply personal, yet transgender, nonbinary, and gender-nonconforming people often struggle to find pleasure products that align with their identities. Gender-affirming sex toys can foster confidence, euphoria, and exploration by catering to diverse bodies and needs. Whether someone is navigating hormone therapy, seeking affirming designs, or exploring new sensations, we have the best transgender sex toys for every experience.

What are the Best Sex Toys for Trans Women and AMAB Individuals?

For trans women and those who were assigned male at birth, sex toys can help navigate changes from hormone therapy while affirming their beautiful femininity. Many experience shifting pleasure responses and varying levels of genital dysphoria, making versatile toys that offer different stimulation options worth their weight in gold.

Starship Hercules Rotating P-Spot Massager

The Hercules Rotating P-Spot Massager combines rotating and vibrating functions to provide deep, delicious prostate stimulation. The curved design targets the p-spot perfectly, while the smooth silicone body offers comfortable penetration. Many trans women find prostate play particularly affirming because it focuses pleasure internally.

Magic Wand 

The iconic Magic Wand is perfect for those experiencing bottom dysphoria. Its broad head allows for powerful stimulation through clothing or blankets, so there’s no need for direct genital contact.

FemmeFunn Unda Panty Vibe 

The Unda Panty Vibe is a discreet wearable vibrator that slips comfortably beneath lingerie, providing hands-free stimulation to all the most sensitive areas. The remote control allows for adjustable intensity, perfect for public play or intimate moments with a partner.

Starship Luna

Anyone looking for a body-safe silicone vibrator designed for broad external stimulation, check out the Luna from Starship. Its smooth curves and gentle vibrations make it wonderful for those who prefer non-penetrative play or are exploring their changing sensitivity from hormone therapy. 

Swiss Navy Arousal Gel

This specially formulated lube enhances sensation and blood flow, Swiss Navy Arousal Gel is particularly helpful for those on estrogen therapy who may experience a reduction in their natural libido. 

What are the Best Sex Toys for Trans Men and AFAB Individuals?

For trans men and people who were assigned female at birth, toys that affirm masculinity and accommodate different stages of their transition are incredible. Many seek options that work with bottom growth from testosterone or that provide gender-affirming penetration experiences.

Sportsheets Everlaster Stud

The Sportsheets Everlaster Stud features a masculine design with adjustable straps for many different body types. Since it’s technically an extender with a hollow design, it can accommodate bottom growth without uncomfortable friction.

Cal Exotics Packer Gear Jock Strap

Cal Exotics’s Packer Gear Jock Strap is a practical solution for daily packing that keeps prosthetics secure while allowing for natural movement. The athletic design helps affirm gender presentation during everyday activities, and its reinforced o-ring means wearers can swap from a daily packer to a harness-compatible dildo for penetration at any time.

Evolved Gender X Handle It Wand

The Handle It Wand works really well for direct stimulation of bottom growth from testosterone. Its powerful vibrations can be used through clothing for those who prefer indirect touch, and the waterproof design means it can even be used in the shower, pool, or bath.

Starship Peters Pleasures Vibrating Dildo

The Peters Pleasures Vibrating Dildo offers both visual affirmation and wonderful pleasure. When worn with a harness, the vibrating feature adds sensation without requiring penetration, and the lifelike details can help with gender euphoria during intimate moments.

Cal Exotics Boundless Body Pump Kit

The Boundless Body Pump Kit is a game-changer for transmasc folks at any stage of bottom growth, thanks to its three interchangeable cylinder sizes that accommodate evolving anatomy. The soft silicone "donuts" at the base ensure a comfortable, secure seal, while the ergonomic handle and quick-release valve allow for precise pressure control, ideal for gentle pumping or more intense sessions.

What are the Best Sex Toys for Nonbinary Gender Neutral, and Gender-Exploratory Play?

For nonbinary individuals and those exploring gender, toys that get rid of binary assumptions while also having versatile functionality are great. Lots of people look for options that work across different anatomy types or that let them get creative during intimate moments.

Gender X Four by Four

The Four by Four features four distinct stimulation types in one design, so anyone can use it regardless of anatomy. The fun color and shape make it super appealing for those who prefer a non-gendered aesthetic with their sex toys.

Starship Inferno Bondage Kit

Bondage can be a powerful way to explore gender presentation through power dynamics. The Inferno Bondage Kit includes adjustable cuffs, a collar, and other accessories that work for all body types, so users can get creative beyond traditional gender roles.

Swiss Navy Slip ‘N Slide Premium Jelly Lubricant

Swiss Navy’s Slip ‘N Slide Premium Jelly Lubricant is a versatile, thick lube that works with all toy materials and types of play. The non-greasy formula is especially useful for those combining different kinds of stimulation or using multiple toys in a session.

Gender X Body Kisses

With its larger-than-normal opening, Body Kisses can be used with bottom growth from testosterone, on the tip of a penis, on a clitoris, or any other erogenous zones.

Transgender Sex Toys: A Guide to Gender-Affirming Pleasure

The right products can transform intimate experiences. Remember that sexual exploration is deeply personal. What feels affirming for one person might not work for another, and that's completely valid. The most important thing is finding what brings comfort, pleasure, and gender euphoria. If you want to learn more about inclusive sex toys, check out these blogs: All About Trans Sex Toys, Gender 101: Best Toys for Transfems, and Gender 101: Best Toys for Transmasc People.