Getting to Know Your Partner

We’re never more vulnerable and open than when we’re masturbating.  It makes sense that the idea of masturbating in front of someone, even when that person is your long-term lover, can make us feel a little anxious.  It’s that same vulnerability that makes mutual masturbation such a powerful tool for bringing couples together and building intimacy in sensual and exciting new ways. Sharing your likes and dislikes when it comes to self-pleasure allows your partner a glimpse at exactly what makes you go wild without them having to worry about reciprocation; masturbation is completely about personal pleasure, but that doesn’t mean it can’t use a helping hand from a willing partner. 

Hands-on-Learning

At one point or another, we’ve all tried to describe exactly what we want to someone and felt the frustration when reality doesn’t line up with our expectations. Mutual masturbation opens the window for you to show your partner exactly what makes you tick. We love mutual masturbation because it’s a win-win! One partner gets off exactly how they love to, and the other learns about their lover so they can please them better in the future. Who doesn’t love a hands-on demonstration?

Toys

There’s a sex toy out there for pretty much every type of person and personality under the sun. If you don’t have a favorite sex toy, chances are you just haven’t found it yet. From butt plugs and anal beads to the wide world of vibrators to dildos and more, toys can enhance mutual masturbation and take it to a whole new level. It will even help your partner use toys with you better than ever before.

Rekindling the Fire

 Letting go of some of the preconceived notions of what masturbation can be and embracing a willingness to explore the world of personal pleasure with a partner can uncover an exciting closeness. Opening up and sharing a personal, intimate, and passionate portion of your life with your partner can translate into an unforgettable shared experience for you both. Whether with toys, each other, or yourselves in a shared space, or any combination thereof, mutual masturbation can bring out your truest and sexiest self.